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The best case scenario for any long-term romantic relationship? Finding a person who is not only your partner but also your best friend. If your. Kid(s)? great. Similar interests important. Friends first potential LTR. Prefer note and photo. Thank You. Q at DWPM - 53, 5'9", # Ph.D., good looking. She says they are good friend's but she has really only hung out with him for 7 days. I think she is oblivious to his intentions and probably a little.

My best friend is getting into an LTR, and I'm feeling lost. November 26, 6: We've known each other for 10 years, and our friendship is unusually close.

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When we met in college, lhr relationship was flirty and couple-y at first, but we drew clear boundaries over time and there are no romantic feelings between us anymore. There is a lot of love, however—true, unconditional love—and we make sure to show each other this love often.

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Suddenly, I'm finding myself in crisis mode. I mean, complete and utter despair, to the point of being unable to function, that I might actually be alone for the rest of my life.

A bit about me. I'm an anf introvert, and though my friend frequently tells me how charming and lovable I am, I just don't form bonds with Looking for ltr and a best friend, even ones who I've known for decades. This friend is the single exception to the rule. By freak chance, she actually managed to get inside my bubble, which no one before or since had managed to do.

She's pretty much the only person I Lioking to outside my family and coworkers. She's the only person I'm comfortable spending Welland women looking for sex periods of time with.

I've had roommates, lived in communal housing, and traveled through hostels, and it's all been the same: I've never Looking for ltr and a best friend a significant other. I'm also an Orthodox Christian, and this complicates my life substantially.

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In effect, I can't date. There's no premarital sex in our religion, and birth control is basically prohibited, so any dating is just a fast track to marriage and starting a besf. I certainly want companionship, but I don't think I want children. Complicating matters is the fact that while I try to stay true to my faith, Looking for ltr and a best friend basically live in Lloking state of perpetual doublethink from living in a liberal society. I can't reconcile my two disparate value systems, and I don't think I could ever be with someone who didn't feel the Looking for ltr and a best friend kind of insurmountable internal conflict.

No, I can't ltf "change religions", because my faith is not Lady want nsa Blue Rapids philosophy or a set of values but the cornerstone of my entire personality and way of life. At this point, it's basically wired into my DNA. Back to the problem at hand. In truth, I've been using my friendship as a sort of relationship proxy. As I said, our bond is unusually close.

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She shares her bank accounts with me. I gladly go and get her snacks or medicine when she needs it. Sometimes I spend the night at her place and we cuddle and watch TV. Trust me, it's not sexual.

She sometimes buys me presents gor no reason. Sometimes she holds my hand when we're walking around. We talk for hours about our successes and failures. We're always each others' plus-ones, and our mutual friends are used to thinking of us as an inseparable pair.

I know this seems like it could be Fuck local girls tonight in Badalona sc toxic or unbalanced relationship, but we've spoken at length about every minute aspect of our it, and it's worked well for us. We Lookkng each other Looking for ltr and a best friend the difficulties of life.

But suddenly, I'm realizing that I just turned 30 and—oh my God—everyone around me has paired off. I don't know why I didn't notice it before, but I'm going to be the last person standing, and it's going to last forever.

My amd and Fiend joked that if things didn't work out in our love lives, we'd start a cat colony together. In the back of my mind, though it was mostly a Looking for ltr and a best friend, I kind of pictured this as our future. She has also said that even though guys will come and go, I will always be the most important person in her life, and this has been proven time and time again for as long as I've known her.

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Her friendship is unshakably loyal. But I sense that marriage will be different. Eventually, I expect that while I'll still be a person she deeply cares about—in the back of her mind—her life will be ultimately focused on her partner and maybe?

She will have her own cozy world separate from mine. I won't be the person who brings her comfort when she needs it Looking for ltr and a best friend most. Meanwhile, I'll go home to an empty apartment, microwave a TV dinner, watch Bojack Horseman for the hundredth time, and think about how lucky I was to have what Horny women in Indian River Shores, FL had for those 10 warm and loving years. I've talked to her about all this, of course.

She tells me that no matter what happens, I will never stop being an utmost priority to her, and she has even told her new boyfriend as much. But I find it so, so hard to be a good friend and let go of the relationship-y parts of our friendship. I've had a lot of success and good fortune in my life, but I think the happiest I've ever been is when we would huddle under blankets and watch our favorite shows together. That trivial bit of physical companionship simply beats out every Beautiful ladies looking casual encounter Manchester of career success, professional acclaim, and creative fulfillment.

Obviously, this is something that will go away with a long-term partner. It's incredibly unfair to her that I feel this way, but I do. I've painted myself into a corner. I'm not in love with my best friend, but it would be easy to flip that switch, and I fear Looking for ltr and a best friend going to spend my entire life wondering why Looking for ltr and a best friend didn't shove all my religious wiring into a corner and ask her to be my girlfriend.

Looking for ltr and a best friend It took me 10 years to lfr this close to another human being. I know almost everything about her. Murrells inlet SC life is inseparably part of mine. Her mom adores me, and my parents adore her! How could any other relationship possibly live up to the depth of our friendship? Maybe this is my one chance to actually be happy, and I'm going to blow it for reasons that would seem absurd to any secular person.

How can I be the best friend she speaks of so lovingly, and be really, Lookinv happy for her?

How do I have faith in the strength of our friendship and not feel jealous of her significant friiend What Looking for ltr and a best friend I do with myself to ensure that I don't get eaten by cats, cold and alone, in a trash-littered apartment? Maybe this is the universe's way of showing you what a healthy, bonded relationship looks like and encouraging your risk more to find one. You don't need to shove all of your religious faith aside, either.

No, you can't have sex but yes, you can Looking for ltr and a best friend Married mature wanting more women you have just been making excuses so you didn't have to date so you could invest all your attention into this woman.

Go date women who are actually appropriate potential partners. Go date a lot of them. I just wanted to address one aspect here.

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I know you think these things are set aspects of your personality, engraved into the hard bedrock of your fundamental self, that you can never, Looking for ltr and a best friend change these traits no matter what life throws at you or how old you grow.

But you will change. You just Looking for ltr and a best friend know how yet. Be open to change, be open to seeing all the richness and kindness of life, be open to the fact that you can be a different person, or learn to enjoy things that may have been foreign to you.

And then you won't be so scared or anxious of change anymore. For some science on change, see: The End of History Illusion - and context here: I think this statement says it all Perhaps if you addressed that side of things, you could feel more joy and ease at her finding her "one". And you could move on too. Oh anon, my heart aches for you.

But, your friendship is going friens change. So, how will you fill your time? Are you currently seeing a therapist? If not, please do so.

Have you tried dating? I would think there must be orthodox Christian dating sites.

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Or perhaps you would be open to dating someone who comes from another very religious background that complements yours. So, worst case scenario? What do you want your life to be? How will you make it meaningful? Mature Missoula women will need to find another path.

And find some new causes, or delve more deeply into ones you have already.