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Shiro's story illustrates an altogether more complex phenomenon - the exchange of youth and beauty for long-term financial gain, motivated not by hunger but by aspiration, glamorised by social media stars, and often wrapped in the trappings of a relationship.

Older men have always used gifts, status, and influence to buy access to young women. The sugar daddy has probably been around, in every society, for as long as the prostitute. So you might ask: The answer is that in Kenya, and in some other African countries, "sugar" relationships seem to have become both more common and more visible: Exactly when this happened is hard to say. It could've been in when Kim Kardashian's infamous sex tape was leaked, or a little later when Facebook and Instagram took over the world, or perhaps when 3G internet hit Africa's mobile phones.

But somehow, we have Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy at a point where having a "sponsor" or a "blesser" - the terms that millennials usually apply to their benefactors - has for many young people become an accepted, and even a glamorous lifestyle choice. You only have to visit the student districts of Nairobi, one recent graduate told the BBC, to see how pervasive the sponsor culture has become.

Until recently there was no data to indicate how many young Kenyan women are involved in sugar relationships. But this year the Busara Centre Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy Behavioural Economics conducted a study for BBC Africa in which they questioned female university students between the ages of 18 and The sample size was small and the study was not fully randomised, so the results only give an indication of the possible numbers, they cannot be taken as definitive.

Also, only a small percentage openly admitted to having a sugar daddy; the researchers were able to infer that a number were hiding the truth from answers they gave to other questions, using a technique called list randomisation.

Jane, a year-old Kenyan undergraduate who readily admits to having two sponsors, sees nothing shameful in such relationships - they are just part of the everyday hustle that it takes to survive in Nairobi, she says.

She also insists that her relationships with Tom and Jeff, both married, involve friendship and intimacy as well as financial exchange. It's like they just want company, they want someone Lady seeking sex tonight Wabasso talk to," she says. She says that her religious parents brought her up with traditional values, but she has made her own choices.

One of her motives, she says, is to be able to support her younger sisters, so they won't need to rely on men for money. But she has also been inspired by Kenya's celebrity "socialites" - women who have transformed sex appeal into wealth, becoming stars of social media.

The show has launched several socialites out of Nairobi's slums and on to yachts off the coast of Malibu or the Mediterranean. If I look hot, I look good, there has got be some rich guy who Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy pay good money to possess me," says Oyunga Pala, Nairobi columnist and social commentator.

The best known of the Kenyan socialites is probably Vera Sidika, who went from dancing in music videos on to the set of Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy Nairobi Diaries, and from there launched a business career based on her Sexy ladies want sex Worcester and her physique.

Nowadays, Vera is keen to promote herself as an entrepreneur, and runs a successful brand of "detox" herbal infusions called Veetox Tea. Equally famous is model and socialite Huddah Monroe, Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy also rose to fame on reality TV - in her case Big Brother Africa, in - and who now runs a well-established line of cosmetics.

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The sudden emphasis on entrepreneurship does not hide Suck cock in Shannon Hills tn fact that these women used their sex appeal to create opportunities in the first place. And many - quite understandably - are attempting to apply this methodology to their own lives. One of those who has succeeded is Bridget Achieng, a woman from the sprawling Nairobi slum of Kibera, who worked as a domestic servant - a house girl - but who gained a social media following on the back of a sexy photoshoot, and then found her way on to the cast of Nairobi Diaries.

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She is poor by the standards of middle-class Kenyans, often living hand-to-mouth, dancing for cash in a nightclub, and struggling to put Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy daughter through school.

But her determination to feed and educate her child coexists with a naked ambition to become rich and famous through modelling and music. Is she driven more by vanity or poverty, aspiration or desperation? The lines are blurred.

Both Grace and Jane have come of age in the last decade, bombarded since childhood with images of female status built on sex appeal. But according to Crystal Simeoni, an expert on gender and economic policy, Kenyan society encourages sugar relationships in other ways too.

If women have become more willing to profit financially from Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy youth and beauty, she says, it's partly because Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy Kenya's gross economic inequalities, lack of social Sexj, and widespread corruption. Hard work won't get them anywhere. Michael Soi, a well-known artist whose paintings satirise Kenya's culture of transactional sex, takes a similar but more cynical view, attributing the phenomenon more to laziness and a get-rich-quick mentality than to structural injustice.

The days of waking up early and working from morning to night are behind us, he says: George Paul Meiu, who studies transactional relationships between men of Kenya's Samburu tribe and older European women, has described how their youth and good looks have become valuable commodities in Kenya's beach resorts. Thanks to a set of "African warrior" daddt and myths about tribal sexual prowess, the Samburu and others like them are particularly appealing to both local and foreign sugar mummies.

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But as most of those dependent on sugar relationships are female, they have dominated the public debate. There are concerns about the morality of their lifestyle, but also about its consequences for their health.

Kerubo, a year-old from Kisii in Western Kenya, maintains that she has control of her Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy with her sugar daddy, Alfred. But when I ask her about safe sex, this illusion quickly evaporates. Both Alfred and her other sponsor, James, prefer not to use condoms, she says. In fact she has had unprotected sex with multiple sugar daddies, who then have sex with other women, as well as with their wives, exposing all of these partners to the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

Dr Joyce Wamoyi from the National Institute for Medical Research in Tanzania says girls and young women between the ages of 15 Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy 24 have consistently been at higher risk of HIV infection than any other section of the population in Over 40 horny women Sturgeon Falls Africa.

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Phamotse eventually fled her Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy, with nothing to show for the relationship. No-one really knows how many sugar relationships end in sexual abuse or physical harm. Kenyan academics and NGOs have made extensive studies of domestic violence, and of the risks faced by Sex workers.

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But on the subject of transactional sex there is no research - only the lurid anecdotes of the tabloids. Among Kenyan feminists, the rise of sponsor culture has provoked intense debate. Does the breaking of old taboos around sex represent a form of female empowerment? Or is sponsor culture just another way in which the female body can be auctioned for the pleasure of men?

Sexy Versailles seeking sugar daddy is less slut-shaming than before. Beautiful older ladies searching nsa Flint while some feminists argue that any choice a woman makes is inherently feminist - because it was made by a woman - others question how free the choice to enter a sponsor relationship really is.

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Jane, the student, makes a distinction, arguing that "in these relationships, things are done on your terms", and Dr Kirsten Stoebenau, a social scientist who has researched transactional sex in Kenya, agrees that this is significant. Grace, the aspiring singer struggling to put Dating new Epinal single women on the table, has a slightly different perspective - to her the similarities with sex work are seekinv apparent.

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In Kenya, more and more young women are using sugar daddies to fund a lifestyle worth posting on social media. Transactional sex was once driven by poverty, says film-maker Nyasha Kadandara.

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