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There is loneliness that is the result of being isolated from other, and there is loneliness which is the result of being separate from the self.
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That is a good way to work off depression. Very isolated and anti-social. None of you are alone. Its all surface crap and meaningless dialogue.
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Tired of lonely cold night a gentleman in public, and giving a smile more often rewards me with a smile in return. The former, loneliness by separation, just makes plain common sense. We are wired at a very primitive level to not be alone too long, probably for survival reasons. The other seems puzzling but probably not when nibht consider how much artificiality goes into most social convention.
According to research published in the Journal of Consumer Research, some people go gaga over inanimate objects because they're lonely. The researchers call this "material possession love," and you've probably witnessed it a number of times: Because these folks suffer from a lack of social connections, they start doting on their things.
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